Not a single bad relationship, not even a partnership, was bad for you because someone had power over you (I’m not talking literally) but because that situation in your life was fertile ground for suffering and tolerating such behaviour.
We are still not, as people, in an ideal position to be able to immediately walk out of anything that doesn’t suite us.
We are still in a position to be suffering because of different situations. Whether or not they are just excuses, it is a fact. However, no one is powerful enough to be able to change you for the worse if you don’t allow it.
Too bad only for the time wasted on resisting, someone or something (not because of resisting but because that is wasting yourself in the start on wrong people and things).
That is why I like to say - No one made me a hero or a lioness with their bad behaviour. I’m like that by my nature.
We are not shaped by other people’s action but our reactions to them.
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