PESSIMIST...SITS AND WAITS FOR SOMEONE TO FIND A SOLUTION FOR HIS PROBLEM. OPTIMIST COMES WITH A SOLUTION. PESSIMIST STILL SITS AND LOOKS FOR NEW PROBLEMS IN THE SOLUTION...
You can’t save someone who doesn’t want to be saved. As long as he prefers his problem with all it’s troubles to moving and trying, you can’t do anything. But one thing you mustn’t do. Allow him to drag you into it. Someone in the rain sees only a wet suit and shoes, and in the sun a heat stroke. Thought of taking an umbrella or sitting in the shade they will immediately sabotage. Because, wind will break the umbrella and he will be too sweaty to sit in the shade. Some people simply have to stay sitting and do nothing for as long as they themselves don’t realize that they have to get up and take a chance. You can’t pull someone out of a problem by force.
Be his support and inspiration to move out of it and not food for his negativity. Stick to your cheerful side!
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